Finding out you’re pregnant for the first time is so exciting (and scary).
I bet when both the little blue lines appeared on that test you felt a combination of intense joy and apprehension.
And after a little while, maybe even before your first set of scans, something started to creep in...
A tiny little voice that said, “ooh, you shouldn’t do that ...don’t eat that ...don’t drink that…”
There’s no question about it: pregnancy and fear come hand-in-hand.
I truly get it because I was afraid too.
“What if I can’t carry this baby to full term?”
“What if I can’t labour naturally?”
“What if I can’t breastfeed? Can't get my baby to sleep? Don’t connect with my baby…?”
If that’s not enough, I was afraid of changing and worried my partner wouldn't love the new ‘me’.
Right through my core (I felt it sitting deep in my chest), I was worried I’d mess it all up and ultimately, I’d fail my child.
“Giving birth does not automatically make a mother out of a woman”
-- Dana Raphael